The Past is Gone !! courtesy photobucket.com |
A friend of mine and her five
children were not being properly cared for by her husband.
Instead he was enjoying
camping trips alone, and for family outings he drove his pickup truck where the
five children had to ride in the back.
My friend was working at a job
out of her home and earning enough to pay the rent, but often she would come to
my house to glean from my pantry for food.
When her husband did not come
home for days, my friend realized he was being unfaithful to her and was having
an affair.
The day she discovered proof
of his new girl friend - - she called me in tears, and asked what she should
do. I told her that he had broken their
covenant and to apply for divorce and to request child support. She did and when he was served with Child
Support papers, that rascal quit his job and applied for disability.
Time went on and she had more
responsibilities with her "in home job" and was blessed with a better
income.
Eventually a younger fellow she
met at the company group meetings was concerned about her, and wanted to make sure she was
OK. She told me, this kid keeps just
keeps hanging around, but he does seem to care about me and my kids. Finally he professed his love for her and later
they were married.
For her there was a happy ending, life with a new companion, one who is a loving husband, a great step dad and is accepted and loved by all her children. The other dad? - Sad case. His selfishness and immorality had cost him dearly.
Years passed and recently my
husband and I saw him awhile back. He
seemed to realize the errors of his ways and expressed love and pride for his
now grown children.
Oh to relive the past – but
it is gone and the best any of us can do is live as we know we should, and walk
with our Lord one day at a time.
1 comment:
It is so very unfortunate when we learn our lessons too late. Yet, when offered to God humbly, with seeking forgiveness, His mercy and grace trumps all. We may never again have what we lost and we may or may not have something better, but we will have a deeper, more truly loving relationship with our Maker...
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